Going out in public for the first time

I look in the mirror one more time, I try to check my makeup but I'm almost shaking with excitement. I can't concentrate. I try for the umpteenth time to fix my bra and again I am dissatisfied. It is an impossible task.

I sit for a while to try to calm down but the rubbing of the pantyhose on my legs only increases my arousal. I better take a breath or else I'll pass out.

Now I stand up, grab my bag and walk to the door, as I hear the mesmerizing click-clack of my heels on the floor. It makes me feel extremely feminine.

I put my hand on the doorknob. Seconds pass. I'm not ready yet but I still open the door and go out to the street. The adrenaline is pumping. My first public outing dressed very pretty and feminine.

Tips for crossdressing in public

One of the most recurrent fantasies that every crossdresser would like to make reality sometime in her life is to go out crossdressed in public.
 
And if that's so, then what's stopping crossdressers from enjoying a nice public outing?

In a word, the answer is: fear.
 
The fear of what might happen if we are caught dressing as feminine as a woman may be so great that it prevents us from daring to go out as crossdressers in public.

But if, despite the initial fear, you've already made the decision to try going out crossdressed in public, read on because you'll find some tips for crossdressing in public that you're sure to find useful and will help you enjoy this adventure to the fullest.

Building confidence

I think everyone will agree that confidence is definitely the first thing to achieve, and not only in crossdressing. Confidence is a fundamental quality in any area of life.

To be confident you have to let go of certain beliefs that limit you and start realizing that dressing as feminine as you want in public is not a bad thing, if anything it's just different.

Plan your outing

One way to feel more confident for your first outing as a crossdresser is to plan for it.

Remember not to overdo it, keep your plan as simple as possible and not to worry too much about all the details. In the end it's all about enjoying the experience.

Certainly there are things you may not be able to control, but there are also things you can control, and we'll talk about those things below.

Choose the right time and place to come out

One of the details that you can and should plan carefully is the time and place where you will be going out in public for the first time as crossdresser.

I know it sounds obvious to say that going out crossdressed during the day is not the same as going out at night. And although the night may seem like the ideal time for our first outing, it never hurts to consider going out during the day.

Regarding the place, you should take into account what activities you want to do, if it will only be a walk in a public place, or if you want to visit a restaurant or a bar instead.

When you go out for the first time, do it in places where there are fewer people but that are safe and for short periods of time. This way you will feel more at ease.

If you are traveling in another country, you should research in advance how permissive the local laws and customs are towards the LGBT community.

If possible, go out with a friend, crossdresser or not, so you can feel safer and enjoy the experience much more. They can also help you plan your outing by giving you ideas and advice.

Dress appropriately to every occasion

Surely you look amazing in that short tight dress and stilettos but that doesn't mean you will dress like that to go anywhere.

That is why you should learn how to crossdress in public and choose your attire according to the time and place you are going to visit.

For that you can visit that place before and look at the way the women who go there are dressed. This way you will have a better chance of going unnoticed.

Choose clothes that are your size and fit your body type, so you can create a nice, simple look that allows you to feel comfortable and confident.

Always try different outfits and styles until you find the one that makes you feel most confident and feminine.

Being a lady in every way

Crossdressing is not only about looking like a woman, it is also about behaving like one.

Practicing your feminine manners will also increase your self-confidence and help you look more like the other women around you.

Watch how the other girls carry themselves and try to emulate their behaviors, postures and movements, of course, without overdoing it.

If you have a friend to help you improve your feminine manners, even better. If not, don't worry, you can also practice alone at home in front of a mirror.

If you decided to wear high heels during your first public outing, it is very important that you first learn how to walk in heels.

This is very important because, in addition to helping you look more feminine, you should do it for safety, as there is a possibility of injury if you don't know how to walk in high heels, and I doubt very much you want to end up in a hospital dressed as a woman.

 

If you still don't feel comfortable walking in high heels, you can also choose shoes with lower heels or even nice flats that you feel confident in.

There is also the issue of how to apply makeup. Yes, you should wear makeup, but use it sparingly. It will help you feel much more feminine.

The same goes for perfumes. Remember to use one that makes you feel fresh, relaxed and, why not, sexy.

Decide if you really want to do it

Perhaps before we think about the details of our first public outing as crossdressers we should first consider whether we really want to do it or whether there is some good reason why we should avoid doing it.

If you are one of those people who love to enjoy crossdressing in the privacy of your own home that's fine, there is no problem with that. Going out in public dressed very cute and feminine is not an obligation.

I can't think of many good reasons not to do it, but one that I do think is important has to do with the fact that you are married. If you haven't yet told your wife that you crossdress or she doesn't approve it then you shouldn't do it. That would only create or increase problems in your relationship.