April Ashley: british transgender  model

Reading the news I learned of April Ashley's passing on December 31, 2021. To tell the truth, I didn't know her story but after doing a little research I was in awe of all she accomplished during her lifetime.

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The above photo dates from 1964 and is a sample of how beautiful she was.

The first years of his life were not exactly happy, she suffered from health problems and even made a couple of attempts on her own life. However, everything changed after she underwent sexual reassignment surgery.

In fact, she is now recognized as one of the first people to undergo this type of surgery.

Her life was always controversial. She was an actress, fashion model, writter and activist for transgender equality. In fact, in 2012 Ashley was appointed a Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) for her services in this field.

Here is a video that corresponds to one of the films that are part of the exhibition April Ashley, Portrait of a lady, presented at the Museum of Liverpool.  The voice is April's.

How to lose weight and gain a more feminine figure as a crossdresser

Like all flirtatious crossdressers, we are always very aware of our weight. We try to keep it under control in order to look sexier and more feminine.

Although many offer extreme methods and diets to achieve this quickly, you may not get the promised results.

On the other hand, before deciding to follow any diet it is highly recommended to visit a specialist in medicine and nutrition to examine you and recommend the most appropriate one for you.

Here we will only give you some recommendations that will help you reach your goal of losing weight to achieve what every hot crossdresser wants: to look beautiful and passable figure. Keep on reading.

Healthy weight loss

I guess all of us would like to lose weight overnight, as quickly as possible, but that's not a healthy goal.

Losing weight slowly but steadily is not a goal in itself, but rather a path to follow that will become a habit that will help us to maintain our desired weight and decrease the risk of suffering the "rebound effect".

The benefits of losing weight are many from improving our blood pressure, glucose and cholesterol levels, to increasing our energy levels and improving our self-esteem, and of course looking very sexy and feminine in mini skirts and short dresses. 

Before starting any weight loss regimen you must be very aware of the reason that drives you to it. Motivation plays a very important role in achieving the results you want.

It would help to define very specifically what you want to achieve by losing weight. Whether it's a health reason, or you want to look better, you must find the connection between that reason for losing weight and your values and beliefs.

After you really know why you want to lose weight, you must commit to that goal. Remember that you are not only going to lose weight, but you are going to change your lifestyle.

It's not just about eating less, losing weight involves other aspects such as physical exercise to reduce sedentary lifestyle and burn those extra calories, and the emotional aspect, which in the end will make you feel better and happier with yourself.

Seek professional help, ask your friends and family for support. All kinds of help count towards your goal of becoming a more beautiful and healthier crossdresser.

Last but not least, continuously track your progress. This will help you know what changes you can make to your weight loss routine to optimize it to your personal needs.

And always remember to reward yourself for every achievement you make on the way to reaching your weight loss goal.

Crossdressers party night out

A girls night out is an event for which we prepare ourselves to look stunning and have a lot of fun.

A night out with other crossdressers allows you to better explore your feminine side in addition to having first-hand feedback on your appearance that will allow you to take your crossdressing skills to the next level, plus it's extremely fun to go out in a group.

Cheer up and let us know how your girls night out went.

Women who love crossdressers

Yes, even if you may find it hard to believe, there are women who love crossdressers.

 

For a crossdresser, their relationship can be complex to say the least. That's why when the wife of a crossdresser accepts his condition is something great, and if he also supports her and fully shares this facet of his life integrating it into the life of the couple is like being in heaven.

Having the full support of your wife is something fundamental if you want to lead a happy life as a couple as a crossdresser.

That you both can help each other look beautiful and feminine is priceless.

Certainly, crossdressing is far from being to the liking of most wives, but a significant percentage of those who do accept their husbands crossdress find it an exciting part of their partner that generates a powerful attraction for them.

I think it is always rewarding to have someone who loves you as you are, with your virtues and defects, and that helping you dress very feminine is to their liking.

I think I'm not wrong in saying that most people would think a crossdresser is very lucky to find a wife or girlfriend who accepts his condition and supports him through this, which is true.

But we often forget about those women who do like to be with a man without fear of expressing their femininity, and that they can also feel very fortunate to be able to share their life with a crossdresser.

Sometimes it is not even necessary to share an intimate relationship, in many occasions a crossdresser just needs a friend to share this side of her life with. Maybe the hardest part is finding the courage to tell her, but after that awkward moment you may be surprised at how rewarding it is to have a friend.

Having a friend with whom you feel comfortable and confident is the most valued thing that many crossdressers can have.

Many women who like crossdressers will be delighted with the idea of helping a man look feminine, as long as you request it in a correct and respectful way. They love the feeling of appreciation. It's a game of friendship and confidences that women love.

Some women are very serious about making a crossdresser look beautiful and feminine, helping her to think like a woman (even if some crossdressers are only interested in dressing in a feminine way). That's something they often find irresistibly attractive and sexy.

Perhaps all crossdressers who look like real women are lucky enough to have a woman as a friend or even as a romantic partner who helps them enhance their femininity.

Nylons and heels

Every girl always dreams of wearing high heels. No matter the type: from classic pumps to exotic mules.

 

What matters is that they have a high heel. And when you combine them with pantyhose or stockings, you get a look that will never go unnoticed, because who can stop admiring a crosdresser in nylons and heels?

For all the fashion-loving crossdressers out there, here is a compilation of the sexiest combinations of nylons and heels that you can show off this season and in the seasons to come.

Crossdressers in high heels and stockings or pantyhose always look great. It's a surefire way to turn heads.

Just the thought of the soft touch of nylon on your legs is as much or even more exciting than the feeling of your legs attracting all eyes.

 

Pantyhose and heels or stockings with appropriate shoes can add elegance to an outfit, whether you want to show off your nice legs with a short dress or your curves with a maxi dress with a side slit.

Imagine how shiny sheer pantyhose with the right dress will add a festive touch, or if you want to create a bold contrast with opaque black tights and colored shoes. 

 

Crossdressing at home

Although going out fully crossdressed on the street will always be an exciting experience, the idea of enjoying crossdressing at home also has its charms.

Maybe shy and sweet crossdressers like you who stay at home are defined as closet crossdressers. But come on, you don't really live in the closet (besides, I've tried it and it's very uncomfortable).

At home you have the advantage of the intimacy that allows you to be the girl you want, without filters, dress up in the craziest and sexiest clothes of your wardrobe and give free rein to your fantasies.

And all this just to please yourself.

As you can see, when you're a crossdresser, it doesn't all have to be going out, going out and going out. Staying at home can be fun too. A lot of it.

How to crossdress

The issue of how to crossdress is quite complicated to deal with as some girls will find it natural while others will find it a real mess.

I think I'm right in saying that we all want to look beautiful when we are dressed up, whether we are doing it alone in the privacy of our homes or getting ready to go out and have fun.

Whatever the purpose of dressing, we must be in the right frame of mind and feel happy when crossdress. Be ourselves and enjoy the moment.

Bringing out the woman in you

Perhaps one of the first steps is how to apply makeup. In the world of makeup there are so many products and it can be a little tricky to figure out when to use what. But it is important to have a minimum of knowledge about it to achieve the desired result as well as a lot of desire to learn and practice.

As for clothing, it all depends on the look you want to achieve. If you are going to dress in intimacy you can dress with the most daring and sexy look that your crazy fantasies tell you. But if you are going out, then you should be a little more careful with what you wear, always keeping in mind the place where you are going to go or the effect you want to achieve on others.

The most feminine garments you can count on are dresses and mini skirts. They are ideal for almost every occasion (unless your goal is to go camping in the mountains or in a jungle).

If the skin on your legs is smooth and free of leg hair marks (after shaving your legs of course), you can show off your beautiful legs without any problems. But if you prefer to cover any imperfections or simply have a weakness for hosiery, you can also choose a pantyhose or stockings that will help you feel more feminine and comfortable.

A separate point on the cross theme is that of shoes. If you haven't tried any yet I encourage you to follow this guide on how to find your first pair of heels.

It is also important to know how to walk in them. For one thing we must think about safety first and avoid injuring ourselves while wearing our cute high heels. On the other hand we want to walk in them like a runway model. Whether for one reason or the other it is important to know some basic tips on how to walk in heels.

Remember to always be aware of the small details. Well-pampered nails, not only on your hands but also on your feet (even if you don't wear open-toed shoes) are a point to always keep in mind, as well as the choice of the accessories you will wear with your outfit: necklaces, earrings, handbags, belts.

Learn to speak more softly and melodiously, varying the tone and volume, and something very important that some people overlook, also remember to adopt the vocabulary associated with women.

Every detail helps you look more feminine and sexy. In the end it is the details that always make the difference.

Finally, if you want to enjoy the moment to the fullest you must assume the right attitude. Develop the feminine personality you wish to exhibit, express your emotions more freely. In short, feel like a real woman.

Crossdressing fantasies

Exploring crossdressing fantasies

A crossdresser's life is already a fantasy. Her world is full of imagination that moves her emotions, her desires that enrich personal identity. That is her world, plenty of crossdressing fantasies.

 

 

In this world, everything is possible, anything can happen. A world full of crazy illusions that can turn out to be very real, of desires that can come true in the blink of an eye. Full of imaginary but vivid experiences that stir her emotions.

 

This space is not merely a refuge; it serves as a playground for self-expression, allowing individuals exploring femininity without fear or hesitation. It’s a world filled with fantastical illusions that can profoundly impact one’s emotional landscape.

 

The fantasies that unfold here resonate deeply, stirring hearts and inspiring self-discovery.

One of the most exhilarating crossdressing fantasies involves the experience of dressing like a woman. Imagine the thrill of slipping into luxurious lingerie, where the delicate fabric glides against the skin—each piece invites a deeper embrace of femininity.

 

The sensation of soft pantyhose hugging her legs becomes intoxicating, while high heels transform the way she moves, instilling newfound confidence with every click against the floor. This journey of transformation, where the exterior reflects an inner feminine identity, is a powerful expression of self.

Makeup application is another essential part of the crossdressing fantasy experience. For many, it’s a ritual that empowers creativity and self-expression. Each brushstroke, from bold eyeliner to vibrant lipstick, allows a crossdresser to craft the image she has always dreamed of.

 

The moment she sees her reflection, adorned and transformed, a rush of emotions—excitement, joy, and vulnerability—floods in. This act of beautification is more than skin deep; it’s a profound statement about identity and acceptance.

The fantasy of embodying femininity extends to the way she behaves and interacts with the world. Walking provocatively, confidently, and to the rhythm of her heels becomes a celebration of her feminine identity. Each sway of her hips and each deliberate step taken in heels invites a sense of empowerment and allure.

 

In these moments, she feels her crossdressing fantasies come alive, moving to a melody that is uniquely hers.

Perhaps one of the most enchanting crossdressing fantasies is the desire to truly be and feel like a woman. This aspiration encompasses a spectrum of experiences, from engaging in meaningful conversations to forming connections with other women.

 

Whether attending social events or enjoying quiet afternoons exploring the city, every interaction serves as an opportunity for self-exploration. The laughter shared and the stories exchanged contribute to a profound sense of belonging—a realization that she is not just an observer but an integral part of this vibrant world.

As each day unfolds in this imaginative landscape, the crossdressing fantasies continue to evolve. Glamorous moments, like attending fabulous events in exquisite outfits, create a thrill that radiates confidence.

 

There are also quieter fantasies, such as curling up with a good book in cozy loungewear, relishing the peace that comes with self-acceptance. Every fantasy enriches her understanding of herself, highlighting the courage it takes to embrace a multifaceted identity.

In essence, crossdressing fantasies provide more than just an escape; they offer a pathway to self-discovery and empowerment. They are the heartbeat of her identity, granting her a chance to express her true self in a world that can sometimes feel unyielding.

 

Through these fantasies, she cultivates a deeper understanding of her identity, ultimately realizing that she is not just a crossdresser but a vibrant individual with a unique story—a beautiful tapestry woven from dreams, desires, and an unyielding quest for authenticity.

This enchanting world, where imagination reigns supreme, becomes a sanctuary for those embracing their true selves. It’s a place where individuals can thrive, exploring the rich landscape of crossdressing fantasies while forging a path toward self-acceptance and celebration of femininity.

 

By engaging with these fantasies, crossdressers can connect with their inner selves, fostering a sense of community and belonging that transcends societal norms.