Crossdressing at home

Although going out fully crossdressed on the street will always be an exciting experience, the idea of enjoying crossdressing at home also has its charms.

Maybe shy and sweet crossdressers like you who stay at home are defined as closet crossdressers. But come on, you don't really live in the closet (besides, I've tried it and it's very uncomfortable).

At home you have the advantage of the intimacy that allows you to be the girl you want, without filters, dress up in the craziest and sexiest clothes of your wardrobe and give free rein to your fantasies.

And all this just to please yourself.

As you can see, when you're a crossdresser, it doesn't all have to be going out, going out and going out. Staying at home can be fun too. A lot of it.

How to crossdress

The issue of how to crossdress is quite complicated to deal with as some girls will find it natural while others will find it a real mess.

I think I'm right in saying that we all want to look beautiful when we are dressed up, whether we are doing it alone in the privacy of our homes or getting ready to go out and have fun.

Whatever the purpose of dressing, we must be in the right frame of mind and feel happy when crossdress. Be ourselves and enjoy the moment.

Bringing out the woman in you

Perhaps one of the first steps is how to apply makeup. In the world of makeup there are so many products and it can be a little tricky to figure out when to use what. But it is important to have a minimum of knowledge about it to achieve the desired result as well as a lot of desire to learn and practice.

As for clothing, it all depends on the look you want to achieve. If you are going to dress in intimacy you can dress with the most daring and sexy look that your crazy fantasies tell you. But if you are going out, then you should be a little more careful with what you wear, always keeping in mind the place where you are going to go or the effect you want to achieve on others.

The most feminine garments you can count on are dresses and mini skirts. They are ideal for almost every occasion (unless your goal is to go camping in the mountains or in a jungle).

If the skin on your legs is smooth and free of leg hair marks (after shaving your legs of course), you can show off your beautiful legs without any problems. But if you prefer to cover any imperfections or simply have a weakness for hosiery, you can also choose a pantyhose or stockings that will help you feel more feminine and comfortable.

A separate point on the cross theme is that of shoes. If you haven't tried any yet I encourage you to follow this guide on how to find your first pair of heels.

It is also important to know how to walk in them. For one thing we must think about safety first and avoid injuring ourselves while wearing our cute high heels. On the other hand we want to walk in them like a runway model. Whether for one reason or the other it is important to know some basic tips on how to walk in heels.

Remember to always be aware of the small details. Well-pampered nails, not only on your hands but also on your feet (even if you don't wear open-toed shoes) are a point to always keep in mind, as well as the choice of the accessories you will wear with your outfit: necklaces, earrings, handbags, belts.

Learn to speak more softly and melodiously, varying the tone and volume, and something very important that some people overlook, also remember to adopt the vocabulary associated with women.

Every detail helps you look more feminine and sexy. In the end it is the details that always make the difference.

Finally, if you want to enjoy the moment to the fullest you must assume the right attitude. Develop the feminine personality you wish to exhibit, express your emotions more freely. In short, feel like a real woman.

Crossdressing fantasies

A crossdresser's life is already a fantasy. Her world is full of imagination that moves her emotions, her desires. That is her world, plenty of crossdresser fantasies.

In this world, everything is possible, anything can happen. A world full of crazy illusions that can turn out to be very real, of desires that can come true in the blink of an eye. Full of imaginary but vivid experiences that stir her emotions.

The fantasy of dressing like a woman with lingerie, pantyhose and high heels. The fantasy of putting on makeup like a woman and wearing that delicious lipstick. The fantasy of behaving like a woman walking provocatively to the beat of her heels. The fantasy of being and feeling like a woman.

Going out in public for the first time

I look in the mirror one more time, I try to check my makeup but I'm almost shaking with excitement. I can't concentrate. I try for the umpteenth time to fix my bra and again I am dissatisfied. It is an impossible task.

I sit for a while to try to calm down but the rubbing of the pantyhose on my legs only increases my arousal. I better take a breath or else I'll pass out.

Now I stand up, grab my bag and walk to the door, as I hear the mesmerizing click-clack of my heels on the floor. It makes me feel extremely feminine.

I put my hand on the doorknob. Seconds pass. I'm not ready yet but I still open the door and go out to the street. The adrenaline is pumping. My first public outing dressed very pretty and feminine.

Tips for crossdressing in public

One of the most recurrent fantasies that every crossdresser would like to make reality sometime in her life is to go out crossdressed in public.
 
And if that's so, then what's stopping crossdressers from enjoying a nice public outing?

In a word, the answer is: fear.
 
The fear of what might happen if we are caught dressing as feminine as a woman may be so great that it prevents us from daring to go out as crossdressers in public.

But if, despite the initial fear, you've already made the decision to try going out crossdressed in public, read on because you'll find some tips for crossdressing in public that you're sure to find useful and will help you enjoy this adventure to the fullest.

Building confidence

I think everyone will agree that confidence is definitely the first thing to achieve, and not only in crossdressing. Confidence is a fundamental quality in any area of life.

To be confident you have to let go of certain beliefs that limit you and start realizing that dressing as feminine as you want in public is not a bad thing, if anything it's just different.

Plan your outing

One way to feel more confident for your first outing as a crossdresser is to plan for it.

Remember not to overdo it, keep your plan as simple as possible and not to worry too much about all the details. In the end it's all about enjoying the experience.

Certainly there are things you may not be able to control, but there are also things you can control, and we'll talk about those things below.

Choose the right time and place to come out

One of the details that you can and should plan carefully is the time and place where you will be going out in public for the first time as crossdresser.

I know it sounds obvious to say that going out crossdressed during the day is not the same as going out at night. And although the night may seem like the ideal time for our first outing, it never hurts to consider going out during the day.

Regarding the place, you should take into account what activities you want to do, if it will only be a walk in a public place, or if you want to visit a restaurant or a bar instead.

When you go out for the first time, do it in places where there are fewer people but that are safe and for short periods of time. This way you will feel more at ease.

If you are traveling in another country, you should research in advance how permissive the local laws and customs are towards the LGBT community.

If possible, go out with a friend, crossdresser or not, so you can feel safer and enjoy the experience much more. They can also help you plan your outing by giving you ideas and advice.

Dress appropriately to every occasion

Surely you look amazing in that short tight dress and stilettos but that doesn't mean you will dress like that to go anywhere.

That is why you should learn how to crossdress in public and choose your attire according to the time and place you are going to visit.

For that you can visit that place before and look at the way the women who go there are dressed. This way you will have a better chance of going unnoticed.

Choose clothes that are your size and fit your body type, so you can create a nice, simple look that allows you to feel comfortable and confident.

Always try different outfits and styles until you find the one that makes you feel most confident and feminine.

Being a lady in every way

Crossdressing is not only about looking like a woman, it is also about behaving like one.

Practicing your feminine manners will also increase your self-confidence and help you look more like the other women around you.

Watch how the other girls carry themselves and try to emulate their behaviors, postures and movements, of course, without overdoing it.

If you have a friend to help you improve your feminine manners, even better. If not, don't worry, you can also practice alone at home in front of a mirror.

If you decided to wear high heels during your first public outing, it is very important that you first learn how to walk in heels.

This is very important because, in addition to helping you look more feminine, you should do it for safety, as there is a possibility of injury if you don't know how to walk in high heels, and I doubt very much you want to end up in a hospital dressed as a woman.

 

If you still don't feel comfortable walking in high heels, you can also choose shoes with lower heels or even nice flats that you feel confident in.

There is also the issue of how to apply makeup. Yes, you should wear makeup, but use it sparingly. It will help you feel much more feminine.

The same goes for perfumes. Remember to use one that makes you feel fresh, relaxed and, why not, sexy.

Decide if you really want to do it

Perhaps before we think about the details of our first public outing as crossdressers we should first consider whether we really want to do it or whether there is some good reason why we should avoid doing it.

If you are one of those people who love to enjoy crossdressing in the privacy of your own home that's fine, there is no problem with that. Going out in public dressed very cute and feminine is not an obligation.

I can't think of many good reasons not to do it, but one that I do think is important has to do with the fact that you are married. If you haven't yet told your wife that you crossdress or she doesn't approve it then you shouldn't do it. That would only create or increase problems in your relationship.

How to choose pantyhose for crossdressing

How to choose pantyhose for crossdressers

Every crossdresser seeks to find a way to beautify and feminize her legs in order to show them off, and pantyhose are her best allies. In fact most crossdressers love pantyhose crossdressing. There is a wide variety of pantyhose on the market today, so here are some tips on how to choose pantyhose for crossdressers.

 

 

Although some people think that fewer and fewer women are wearing pantyhose, that doesn't mean that crossdresser can't wear them. There are many crossdressers wearing pantyhose. Pantyhose are a symbol of femininity and if some women don't want to wear them, that's their loss.

Choose the best quality pantyhose possible

When it comes to pantyhose, this is the tip you should pay the most attention to because herein lies one of the best pantyhose secrets when buying them.

In this matter there are no other option, the better the quality the better the experience. It's nice to have some drugstore pantyhose. But if you want to show off your beautiful legs you only have one option, buy the best quality pantyhose you can afford (we don't want you to go broke for this either).

Finding the right size

All pantyhose (or almost all) are designed to be worn by women. Like crossdressers, we are heavier and bigger than they are. Therefore, the pantyhose we select will need to be sized larger to ensure the correct fit. It will give you better comfort when wearing, make it easer to get in and will minimise the risk of runs.

 

Choose the right pantyhose for the occasion

Choosing the right pantyhose depends a lot on the event you want to wear it to, and you can be sure that there is a pantyhose for every occasion.

If pantyhose are not chosen carefully, you could end up looking silly, underdressed or overdressed.

If the main thing is elegance, then you should stick to the basics and choose nude or black pantyhose, and if they are going to be nude try to make them as sheer as possible and as close to your skin tone as possible.  This is one of the reasons why you should choose quality pantyhose. So no suntan or shiny pantyhose (those are for another time).

Another good tip is to match the color of your pantyhose to the color of your shoes.

If you want a more streamlined look when wearing black pantyhose, wear black pumps. The same applies for nude pantyhose, although in this case you have a lot more possibilities to combine them with both your nude pantyhose and shoes. Another plus point of nude pantyhose is that they will help you get a slimmer look on your legs when wearing nude pantyhose with nude shoes.

If you live in colder areas you will surely appreciate being able to wear thicker pantyhose. Opaque pantyhose (sometimes called tights) are the perfect one for this. 

Now if the occasion is more casual then have fun wearing colorful pantyhose. They will help you achieve a more modern and youthful look.

And finally, if you plan to wear pantyhose to enjoy intimate moments, you don't have to worry about how to choose pantyhose, just enjoy them because none of the above pantyhose tips applies. All that matters is wearing pantyhose that makes you feel super sexy and feminine and satisfies your partner's fantasies.

And remember, there's nothing sexier than crossdressers in pantyhose and lingerie.

Below you will find a short video with beautiful crossdressers in pantyhose that will make it easier for you to remember the tips you found here.

 

 

How to take better selfies

Photos are a nice way to share our femininity. Beautiful pictures can be a real confidence booster. That's why here I will tell you how to take better selfies.

Taking a picture is not exactly rocket science but it does require taking into consideration a few simple things.

Lighting matters

It may be too obvious, but it must be said anyway: you need to pay a lot of attention to enlightenment. Good lighting can make the difference between a memorable selfie and an ordinary selfie.

Natural light is almost always the best, it will help you get that beautiful glow on your face. But don't exaggerate. Keep the light from being too harsh. Certainly natural light is the best, but try to avoid facing the sun directly as it will cast shadows on your face, besides that nothing healthy.

Background

The background you choose for your selfie should help make it more attractive and take it to the next level. Your background should be interesting.

Let your creativity flow freely and try different places with different objects, patterns and colors in the background. Natural backgrounds such as meadows or flowers, or colorful and vibrant places always look beautiful.

The most important tip: be yourself

Seek to reflect the best version of yourself. Do not exaggerate. Be confident. Feel inspired to get your creativity flowing but always trying to make you look natural. Take lots of pictures and try different angles.

And above all relax and have fun taking your picture.

 

Feeling feminine

People say that feeling feminine is a matter of attitude but there are also some things we can do to increase our femininity.

To begin with, we don't all think the same way about femininity, although that doesn't stop us from being a little (or very) vain and wanting to look beautiful at all times.

Some beautiful crossdressers can look naturally feminine while others can look somewhat more masculine. But regardless of that there are some feminization tips and tricks that will help you look more passable and feel much more feminine, a feminine crossdresser.

Maybe the first thing all feminine crossdressers should focus on is growing their hair, not because it is the most important thing, but because this will take some time and the sooner you start the better. Having a natural long hair is much better and cheaper than buying wigs. A long and beautiful hair will help you have a better mood and look girly.

Another thing to keep in mind, especially if you want to show off your legs in skirts and heels, is to remove all your body hair often and completely.

Learning to put on makeup is essential if you want to look more feminine. But be careful because it can become an obsession. Here you will find a useful guide on how to apply makeup.

The clothes you wear are also important if you all want to look like elegant crossdressers. Choose a style and remember not to overdo it. Watch how women dress and follow their example. To look sexy you don't need to wear a skirt that is so short that it looks more like a belt. In other words, you don't have to show off too much, even if you love it. And always remember to wear very feminine lingerie.

Shoes are something that drives women and crossdressers alike crazy. Maybe it's because it's the main symbol of femininity. We all love high heels, and the higher the better, but we must take it easy. If you have not yet bought your first heels here you will find information on how to find your first heels. Now, if you want to improve your ability to walk in high heels like a catwalk model, here here are some tips for walking in heels.

And as a final piece of advice, remember to be yourself. Create your own style and don't compare yourself to other crossdressers. You'll be much happier that way.

Inspiring femininity

Do you need inspiration to grow as a crossdresser? Here are some motivating quotes that will inspire you on your journey to your femininity.

"People will stare. Make it worth their while." - Harry Winston

"Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself." - Coco Chanel

"It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." - E.E. Cummings

"If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be." - Maya Angelo

"We are not what other people say we are. We are who we know ourselves to be."

 - Laverne Cox