Going out in public for the first time

I look in the mirror one more time, I try to check my makeup but I'm almost shaking with excitement. I can't concentrate. I try for the umpteenth time to fix my bra and again I am dissatisfied. It is an impossible task.

I sit for a while to try to calm down but the rubbing of the pantyhose on my legs only increases my arousal. I better take a breath or else I'll pass out.

Now I stand up, grab my bag and walk to the door, as I hear the mesmerizing click-clack of my heels on the floor. It makes me feel extremely feminine.

I put my hand on the doorknob. Seconds pass. I'm not ready yet but I still open the door and go out to the street. The adrenaline is pumping. My first public outing dressed very pretty and feminine.

Tips for crossdressing in public

One of the most recurrent fantasies that every crossdresser would like to make reality sometime in her life is to go out crossdressed in public.
 
And if that's so, then what's stopping crossdressers from enjoying a nice public outing?

In a word, the answer is: fear.
 
The fear of what might happen if we are caught dressing as feminine as a woman may be so great that it prevents us from daring to go out as crossdressers in public.

But if, despite the initial fear, you've already made the decision to try going out crossdressed in public, read on because you'll find some tips for crossdressing in public that you're sure to find useful and will help you enjoy this adventure to the fullest.

Building confidence

I think everyone will agree that confidence is definitely the first thing to achieve, and not only in crossdressing. Confidence is a fundamental quality in any area of life.

To be confident you have to let go of certain beliefs that limit you and start realizing that dressing as feminine as you want in public is not a bad thing, if anything it's just different.

Plan your outing

One way to feel more confident for your first outing as a crossdresser is to plan for it.

Remember not to overdo it, keep your plan as simple as possible and not to worry too much about all the details. In the end it's all about enjoying the experience.

Certainly there are things you may not be able to control, but there are also things you can control, and we'll talk about those things below.

Choose the right time and place to come out

One of the details that you can and should plan carefully is the time and place where you will be going out in public for the first time as crossdresser.

I know it sounds obvious to say that going out crossdressed during the day is not the same as going out at night. And although the night may seem like the ideal time for our first outing, it never hurts to consider going out during the day.

Regarding the place, you should take into account what activities you want to do, if it will only be a walk in a public place, or if you want to visit a restaurant or a bar instead.

When you go out for the first time, do it in places where there are fewer people but that are safe and for short periods of time. This way you will feel more at ease.

If you are traveling in another country, you should research in advance how permissive the local laws and customs are towards the LGBT community.

If possible, go out with a friend, crossdresser or not, so you can feel safer and enjoy the experience much more. They can also help you plan your outing by giving you ideas and advice.

Dress appropriately to every occasion

Surely you look amazing in that short tight dress and stilettos but that doesn't mean you will dress like that to go anywhere.

That is why you should learn how to crossdress in public and choose your attire according to the time and place you are going to visit.

For that you can visit that place before and look at the way the women who go there are dressed. This way you will have a better chance of going unnoticed.

Choose clothes that are your size and fit your body type, so you can create a nice, simple look that allows you to feel comfortable and confident.

Always try different outfits and styles until you find the one that makes you feel most confident and feminine.

Being a lady in every way

Crossdressing is not only about looking like a woman, it is also about behaving like one.

Practicing your feminine manners will also increase your self-confidence and help you look more like the other women around you.

Watch how the other girls carry themselves and try to emulate their behaviors, postures and movements, of course, without overdoing it.

If you have a friend to help you improve your feminine manners, even better. If not, don't worry, you can also practice alone at home in front of a mirror.

If you decided to wear high heels during your first public outing, it is very important that you first learn how to walk in heels.

This is very important because, in addition to helping you look more feminine, you should do it for safety, as there is a possibility of injury if you don't know how to walk in high heels, and I doubt very much you want to end up in a hospital dressed as a woman.

 

If you still don't feel comfortable walking in high heels, you can also choose shoes with lower heels or even nice flats that you feel confident in.

There is also the issue of how to apply makeup. Yes, you should wear makeup, but use it sparingly. It will help you feel much more feminine.

The same goes for perfumes. Remember to use one that makes you feel fresh, relaxed and, why not, sexy.

Decide if you really want to do it

Perhaps before we think about the details of our first public outing as crossdressers we should first consider whether we really want to do it or whether there is some good reason why we should avoid doing it.

If you are one of those people who love to enjoy crossdressing in the privacy of your own home that's fine, there is no problem with that. Going out in public dressed very cute and feminine is not an obligation.

I can't think of many good reasons not to do it, but one that I do think is important has to do with the fact that you are married. If you haven't yet told your wife that you crossdress or she doesn't approve it then you shouldn't do it. That would only create or increase problems in your relationship.

How to choose pantyhose for crossdressing

How to choose pantyhose for crossdressers

Every crossdresser seeks to find a way to beautify and feminize her legs in order to show them off, and pantyhose are her best allies. In fact most crossdressers love pantyhose crossdressing. There is a wide variety of pantyhose on the market today, so here are some tips on how to choose pantyhose for crossdressers.

 

 

Although some people think that fewer and fewer women are wearing pantyhose, that doesn't mean that crossdresser can't wear them. There are many crossdressers wearing pantyhose. Pantyhose are a symbol of femininity and if some women don't want to wear them, that's their loss.

Choose the best quality pantyhose possible

When it comes to pantyhose, this is the tip you should pay the most attention to because herein lies one of the best pantyhose secrets when buying them.

In this matter there are no other option, the better the quality the better the experience. It's nice to have some drugstore pantyhose. But if you want to show off your beautiful legs you only have one option, buy the best quality pantyhose you can afford (we don't want you to go broke for this either).

Finding the right size

All pantyhose (or almost all) are designed to be worn by women. Like crossdressers, we are heavier and bigger than they are. Therefore, the pantyhose we select will need to be sized larger to ensure the correct fit. It will give you better comfort when wearing, make it easer to get in and will minimise the risk of runs.

 

Choose the right pantyhose for the occasion

Choosing the right pantyhose depends a lot on the event you want to wear it to, and you can be sure that there is a pantyhose for every occasion.

If pantyhose are not chosen carefully, you could end up looking silly, underdressed or overdressed.

If the main thing is elegance, then you should stick to the basics and choose nude or black pantyhose, and if they are going to be nude try to make them as sheer as possible and as close to your skin tone as possible.  This is one of the reasons why you should choose quality pantyhose. So no suntan or shiny pantyhose (those are for another time).

Another good tip is to match the color of your pantyhose to the color of your shoes.

If you want a more streamlined look when wearing black pantyhose, wear black pumps. The same applies for nude pantyhose, although in this case you have a lot more possibilities to combine them with both your nude pantyhose and shoes. Another plus point of nude pantyhose is that they will help you get a slimmer look on your legs when wearing nude pantyhose with nude shoes.

If you live in colder areas you will surely appreciate being able to wear thicker pantyhose. Opaque pantyhose (sometimes called tights) are the perfect one for this. 

Now if the occasion is more casual then have fun wearing colorful pantyhose. They will help you achieve a more modern and youthful look.

And finally, if you plan to wear pantyhose to enjoy intimate moments, you don't have to worry about how to choose pantyhose, just enjoy them because none of the above pantyhose tips applies. All that matters is wearing pantyhose that makes you feel super sexy and feminine and satisfies your partner's fantasies.

And remember, there's nothing sexier than crossdressers in pantyhose and lingerie.

Below you will find a short video with beautiful crossdressers in pantyhose that will make it easier for you to remember the tips you found here.

 

 

How to take better selfies

Photos are a nice way to share our femininity. Beautiful pictures can be a real confidence booster. That's why here I will tell you how to take better selfies.

Taking a picture is not exactly rocket science but it does require taking into consideration a few simple things.

Lighting matters

It may be too obvious, but it must be said anyway: you need to pay a lot of attention to enlightenment. Good lighting can make the difference between a memorable selfie and an ordinary selfie.

Natural light is almost always the best, it will help you get that beautiful glow on your face. But don't exaggerate. Keep the light from being too harsh. Certainly natural light is the best, but try to avoid facing the sun directly as it will cast shadows on your face, besides that nothing healthy.

Background

The background you choose for your selfie should help make it more attractive and take it to the next level. Your background should be interesting.

Let your creativity flow freely and try different places with different objects, patterns and colors in the background. Natural backgrounds such as meadows or flowers, or colorful and vibrant places always look beautiful.

The most important tip: be yourself

Seek to reflect the best version of yourself. Do not exaggerate. Be confident. Feel inspired to get your creativity flowing but always trying to make you look natural. Take lots of pictures and try different angles.

And above all relax and have fun taking your picture.

 

Feeling feminine

People say that feeling feminine is a matter of attitude but there are also some things we can do to increase our femininity.

To begin with, we don't all think the same way about femininity, although that doesn't stop us from being a little (or very) vain and wanting to look beautiful at all times.

Some beautiful crossdressers can look naturally feminine while others can look somewhat more masculine. But regardless of that there are some feminization tips and tricks that will help you look more passable and feel much more feminine, a feminine crossdresser.

Maybe the first thing all feminine crossdressers should focus on is growing their hair, not because it is the most important thing, but because this will take some time and the sooner you start the better. Having a natural long hair is much better and cheaper than buying wigs. A long and beautiful hair will help you have a better mood and look girly.

Another thing to keep in mind, especially if you want to show off your legs in skirts and heels, is to remove all your body hair often and completely.

Learning to put on makeup is essential if you want to look more feminine. But be careful because it can become an obsession. Here you will find a useful guide on how to apply makeup.

The clothes you wear are also important if you all want to look like elegant crossdressers. Choose a style and remember not to overdo it. Watch how women dress and follow their example. To look sexy you don't need to wear a skirt that is so short that it looks more like a belt. In other words, you don't have to show off too much, even if you love it. And always remember to wear very feminine lingerie.

Shoes are something that drives women and crossdressers alike crazy. Maybe it's because it's the main symbol of femininity. We all love high heels, and the higher the better, but we must take it easy. If you have not yet bought your first heels here you will find information on how to find your first heels. Now, if you want to improve your ability to walk in high heels like a catwalk model, here here are some tips for walking in heels.

And as a final piece of advice, remember to be yourself. Create your own style and don't compare yourself to other crossdressers. You'll be much happier that way.

Inspiring femininity

Inspiring femininity: Motivational Quotes for Crossdressers

Do you need inspiration to grow as a crossdresser? Here are some motivating quotes that will inspire you on your journey to your femininity.

"People will stare. Make it worth their while." - Harry Winston

"Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself." - Coco Chanel

"It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." - E.E. Cummings

"If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be." - Maya Angelo

"We are not what other people say we are. We are who we know ourselves to be."

 - Laverne Cox

Embracing femininity as a crossdresser is a journey filled with self-discovery and empowerment. Motivational quotes for crossdressers can serve as powerful reminders of the beauty and strength in embracing your feminine identity. These quotes not only inspire but also encourage you to express your true self confidently.

As you explore inspirational quotes, remember that each phrase reflects personal growth. Quotes about femininity can motivate you to experiment with styles, makeup, and self-expression. Surround yourself with uplifting sayings that resonate with your journey. They can help build your confidence and reinforce your individuality as a crossdresser.

Consider incorporating famous quotes from icons in the LGBTQ+ community. Quotes that celebrate self-love and authenticity can be particularly impactful. They remind you that your journey is valid and that embracing your femininity is a courageous act.

Self-compassion is also vital in this process. Some days may be more challenging than others, but remembering empowering quotes can help you navigate those tough moments. Celebrate your progress and acknowledge the bravery it takes to be true to yourself.

Ultimately, the path to embracing femininity is a celebration of self-acceptance and love. Let motivational quotes inspire you to grow, explore, and fully express your true self. Your journey as a crossdresser is beautiful, and with the right inspiration, you can shine in all your feminine glory!

Caught by her roommate

Crossdresser caught by her roommate

Getting caught crossdressing at home or anywhere else can be a very awkward moment. Even more so if she gets caught by her roommate or her wife.

Getting caught crossdressing is a very common fantasy among crossdressers. Imagine yourself for a moment dressed very sexy and being part of a story in which you have been caught crossdressing.

Caught crossdressing

Can you imagine your roommate, your wife or even a co-worker catching you dressed very feminine in pantyhose and heels?

You may not see it that way at the time but, in addition to being an extremely exciting moment, being surprised by your roommate can also be a fun time.

Being dressed very feminine in a short, tight dress, feeling the soft touch of pantyhose, your lacy ligerie, plus the delicious and sexy discomfort of high heels can be a very intense moment that makes you lose yourself in a world of fantasy.

And it is at that precise moment when you are completely careless that you are caught.

As you look at the astonished face of the person who caught you, your face turns completely red with embarrassment and you can't find a way to articulate a word.

And after the first moment of surprise, the questions of rigor arrive. That's when the craziest answers and explanations come out of your scared little head.

In the end, if you're lucky, maybe the other person will be understanding and promise to keep the secret and, who knows, be your partner in your next crossdressing stories.

How to feel about getting caught can be a bit illogical, as you can feel really embarrassed initially but depending on how it all turns out you can end up feeling really good.

Here you can enjoy a funny video by Yoya Fabulosa about a situation that could happen to any of us...maybe.

Tips to be a happy crossdresser

She looks so happy in her black dress and high heels. If you have been in this wonderful world for some time, you will know that being a happy crossdresser is not just a matter of what you wear. It's more than that and here are some clues that I hope will be as useful to you as they were to me.

Accepting yourself

Do you enjoy being a crossdreser? Then stop suffering and accept yourself as you are, a normal person who likes to look pretty by dressing as feminine as possible in women's clothes. 

The acceptance of oneself is a fundamental step to be happy. It may take you a while to understand it, and that's normal, but by doing so you will see things differently and be happier.

Be honest with your loved ones

You know that you are surrounded by people who love you and want the best for you. Be honest with them. The subject may be a bit complicated to deal with but there is always a way to talk about your crossdressing with your wife, family or friends. If you want a happy relationship, honesty will always be the key

Stop comparing yourself

Every woman has her own qualities and defects. You have them too. If you like your qualities then reinforce them and if you feel that you have things to improve then get to work on them. Remember that you are beautiful.

Crossdressing in the wild

Nature may not be the best place to show off your femininity but some cute crossdressers think otherwise.

Here is an example of a beautiful crossdresser dressed in a beautiful blue dress and black boots that match her pantyhose. All pretty crossdressers look sexy in boots and pantyhose.

 

For many crossdressers, the opportunity to express femininity extends beyond the confines of home.

 

Crossdressing in nature can be a liberating experience, allowing you to embrace your identity while enjoying the beauty of the outdoors.

 

Whether you’re strolling through a park or enjoying a gentle hike, incorporating stylish outfits that include pantyhose and boots can enhance your adventure.

Casual Chic: A Day at the Park

A casual day at the park is an ideal way to start your outdoor journey. For this look, consider a flowy sundress or a fashionable tunic paired with fitted leggings or pantyhose.

 

The sundress offers comfort and style, while leggings keep you warm and provide coverage. Complement this outfit with a pair of ankle boots that have a feminine flair, perhaps in soft pastels or floral designs.

Accessorizing with a wide-brimmed hat and a chic crossbody bag not only elevates your feminine appearance but also serves practical purposes. The hat protects against the sun, while the bag is perfect for carrying essentials like sunscreen, water, and snacks—key for a successful day outdoors.

 

 

Trailblazing in Style: Hiking Adventures

For those who enjoy a bit more excitement, hiking offers a fantastic way to experience nature while showcasing your femininity. Opt for a fitted athletic top paired with high-waisted shorts for a stylish yet functional outfit. Layer with a light cardigan if the weather calls  

Incorporating pantyhose can add warmth and a feminine touch, especially those with fun patterns or colors. Pair your shorts with knee-high or calf-length boots that are both functional and fashionable. Look for boots that provide good grip and support, ensuring your comfort while tackling the trails.

Accessorize with a stylish backpack to carry your essentials, and don’t forget chic sunglasses to protect your eyes during your outdoor adventures. This outfit allows you to feel confident and feminine as you navigate the great outdoors.

Strolling Through Nature: A Feminine Touch

If you prefer a leisurely stroll through a nature reserve, a relaxed yet feminine outfit can set the tone. Pair a soft, oversized sweater with a flowing pleated skirt that dances in the breeze. This look exudes femininity while providing comfort for a day of walking.

Pantyhose are perfect for added warmth and style. Choose knee-high boots with a small heel to elevate your look while ensuring comfort during your stroll. This combination creates a lovely silhouette, showcasing your feminine side while enjoying the serene beauty of nature.

Feminine Footwear for Every Occasion

Selecting the right footwear is crucial when venturing outdoors. Look for boots that blend style and comfort, allowing you to enjoy your time outside without compromising your femininity. Unique details, such as lace-up fronts or decorative buckles, can add flair to your outfits.

When it comes to pantyhose, don’t shy away from experimenting with colors and textures. Sheer options can add a delicate touch, while patterned or bold colors can make a statement. The key is to wear what makes you feel confident and comfortable, no matter the setting.

 

Crossdressing in the wild provides a unique opportunity to express your femininity while enjoying nature’s beauty. Whether you’re spending a day at the park, hiking scenic trails, or strolling through a nature reserve, incorporating pantyhose and boots into your outfits can create a stylish and comfortable experience. Embrace your femininity, revel in the great outdoors, and let your unique style shine through every adventure you embark on!

 

And for you to see that theyy are not the only crossdressers who enjoy nature here I leave you a video of the beautiful Natassia Crystal with a friend walking through the forest. Enjoy.